Monday, March 16, 2015

A Good Day

(originally posted by Wendi)

It has been a good day.

Mark, with the break from treatment, has been feeling better. The nausea and GI discomfort that has plagued him all week subsided to still background noise. The Megase has increased his appetite, but not his choice of what to eat - it's like being in the picture book "The Seven Silly Eaters". Popcorn, pickles (5 calories each and no fat, really??), and occasional spoonfuls of ice cream. He's drinking, both water and Gatorade. The pain in his throat has lessened, and his head isn't hurting. And his fatigue has lessened (aided by numerous naps over the weekend).

I had forgotten to mention last week that he has been traveling by wheelchair since Tuesday. He can get on and off the shuttles and make it from bed to the bathroom and back, but he's been so exhausted, he doesn't feel like he can do much else. He says his legs feel tired and weak. I think he may be a bit unsteady on them as well. Also, he hasn't wanted to leave the room while we're at the house, for various reasons.

But today, I put him in the wheelchair and wheeled him outside. We walked around the playground, shot some hoops, and played catch with Bella. I didn't get a picture, but the moments are etched on my heart as he laughed and smiled, fully enjoying the day. Then we walked around the block, me pushing his wheelchair, Bella on a tiny bike, and took in the flowers and birds, talked about the bayou that the trail ran along, and allowed the sun to shine down upon him, something he won't be able to enjoy for much longer, at least not with his head and arms bare like that.

It has been a good day. I know he and I both went to bed thankful for the break, and yet dreading the return of treatments tomorrow. I pray that this week will be easier on him, and that we will hold the good days close and let the others fall by the way.
God bless, and we love you all.

13 comments:

  1. Thank God for the break. Bless you, bless Mark. You are in our thoughts and prayers...

    By Leslie Alexander — Mar 18, 2015 5:00am

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  2. Sunshine has its own healing powers. Mark, our thoughts are always with you.

    By John and Judy Straub — Mar 17, 2015 4:32pm

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  3. So grateful for the blessings of land and sun, family and rest. May Brigid's mantle of healing and protection be upon you all. xoxo

    By Erin Johnson — Mar 16, 2015 3:36pm

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  4. Thank God for a refreshing break!

    By Peggy O'Connor — Mar 16, 2015 2:02pm

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  5. So good to hear, Wendi. Mark and your family are always on my awake-in-the-night prayer list.

    By Marliss Bombardier — Mar 16, 2015 1:02pm

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  6. Prayers continue for Mark and the whole Billington family. Popcorn and pickles? Sounds like something a pregnant woman would ask for. Love reading about his (and your) journey. God Bless you all.

    By Cooki — Mar 16, 2015 9:04am

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  7. Thank you Lord for Mark's good weekend. We ask that these good periods occur frequently and last longer, in Christ's name Amen.

    By Joe Russo — Mar 16, 2015 7:13am

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  8. I'm so glad you had a good weekend, Mark. And I'm glad that you are eating, although there is not much food value in popcorn and pickles! You need something with some actual calories. I am so proud of you for being so brave and strong. I love you.

    By Much love, Grandma Crook — Mar 16, 2015 1:41am

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  9. My mom told me tonight she's been praying up a storm for Mark so there's another one in his corner.

    Here's hoping for a slightly easier week for you all!

    By The Phelans — Mar 16, 2015 1:41am

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  10. Praise be to God. Take any moment like this. I feel the prayers are being answered little by little. I just picture Mark smiling even thought I don't know you I feel the joy with his every smile. How can I pray for one little soldier when so many are suffering. So I had to offered the rosary during Adoration for all the sick. Good night and lots of prayers for tomorrow.

    By Maria Ritter — Mar 16, 2015 1:37am

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  11. Glad he got some sun! Sunshine is a great pain reliever and a mood elevator, as well.

    By Love, Aunt Sue — Mar 16, 2015 12:52am

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  12. Thank god for good days, rest and respite - for you all!

    By Peggy & Steve Coquet — Mar 16, 2015 12:46am

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  13. JJ prays for his friend every night and we pray with him. One week down, right?

    By Leann . — Mar 16, 2015 12:37am

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